It may be true that it is difficult to get a man to commit to a serious romantic relationship, as most man doesn’t really want to be tied down unless he is totally ready to do so. The saying of “Marriage is the grave of man” will always send a shiver down men spines. Men always want to have fun and be sure that he has exhaust all the options before taking the knee. But there are certain things that a woman can do in order to gain that upper hand and prod him closer into committing to you without any side effects.

So here are the ten things that you could do if you want to ensure that your man gets more serious about committing both his heart and soul to you. Do it right and he shall be yours forever.

Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder
Sometimes, plan a little time away from him every now and then will give him time to realize how important you are. No matter how much you may love spending time with your man, you should occasion be MIA (Missing in action). Remember that old saying; absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Take It Slow And Easy
Man tends to take relationship rather slowly than woman. Do not rush a man into a serious relationship with you. A man will know when to set his mind and be serious with you. The more you push him, the more he will pull away.A

Tiny Reminders
Leave small reminders of yourself around his house. You do not need to go over board by leaving too much of your stuff at his house that he starts feeling like you are trying to force your way into his house without his permission. Placing the right items at the right place will have him remember you. A tie that you brought for him in his drawer or a mug that has your name on it will be nice.

Continue Your Life
If you have not heard from him all day, do not sit around waiting for him to call you. Go out and continue your life. Arrange shopping with your friends or going enjoyed other activities. This will get him to see that you still have other things going on in your life other than him.

Be Nonchalant
Remain as relaxed as possible about your future together. Men are used to having women bombard them with questions about where a relationship is headed. They will find it refreshing when you seem not to be too interested in settling down.

Saying In A Special Way
Wonder why men confess their love as much as women do? But when they told you he love you, you will be so touched. In fact, telling a man everyday you care about him has a way of cheapening the worth. So tell him every now and then how much he means to you, but make in a special way or special occasion.

Meet The Folks
If you get the opportunity to meet his family, do not put yourself forward as the possible future in-law. Getting the family to like and respect you for who you are is an important step. If they think you are pushing your way into his life too soon they will become protective of him.

An Equal Balance
Take the pressure off him by having a delicate balance between maintaining your independence and being part of the relationship. Make sure that while you still go out and do your own things, every now and then let him know that you also want to spend time with him.

Be Respectful
Men will have that one friend you wish they did not hang out with. But pointing out his flaws over and over again is only going to drive a wedge between the two of you, and not him and his friend. Respect his friends and his time with them by slowing building up good relationship with them will prove to be a useful ally for his consideration.

Let Him Chase After You
Men will value and treasure women when they are they hunter instead of the hunted.
Let him crack his head on trying to pamper you is a good way to keep his love for you running. But watch out for too much cold shoulder. You don’t want him to change his target.

They may be other ways to get a man to put down his other temptation and be committed to you. But it all lingers around the same philosophy of the above mentioned. So take it slow and fate will take it own course.