Do your mind always come to a blank when you meet a beautiful lady? Can’t think of a pick up line? You simply just don’t know what to say. The worse part you just hand over the chance to the other guy who just engaged and pick up your desire girl. Isn’t it like depositing your hard earned money into his bank account! Women revealed that the right words can mean the difference between going back to her place and you going home alone. Let’s us now explore the very essence of pick-up line that ladies loves to hear.

Humor – You Don’t Need To Be A Clown To Get Her Attention
Humor by far is the best ice-breaker and it never failed. Women rated funny and cheesy but not over pickup lines more favorably than men did. Adopting the right kind of humor at the right time can be a great conversation starter. Women want to be relaxed and comfortable with someone who can make them laugh, in fact all people want that. Women may see you making an effort to give them a laugh which can be rather appealing.

Warning
If you’re not funny and not getting real laughs whether it’s due to your humour cannot get across or simply have been receiving those fake laugh, you should consider to modify strategies till you brush up on your humour side. Also avoid sarcasm as it can put people off.

Funny is sexy, not funny is annoying”

Ordinary- Removing Flamboyant From The Words
If you have the courage to approach the lady, you will already have 50 percent of the chance in your pocket. Followed by playing your card right and managed to hook up the lady with conversation, your chances will greatly soars. The rest is luck though.  You do not need to worry if you can think of a perfect pick-up line. Yes, an interesting and funny pick-up line will increase your impact point but what keeps the feeling going on is conversation. It actually makes ladies think you are interested, so get good at acting interested. Women like to talk, so let her hear you tell your friends you think she is hot. Women love to think that guys are discussing about them, it is a huge turn on and works like a charm.

Warning
Just make sure you are discussing about the right things. Not the cleavage depth or the other assets which you don’t want her to hear. When you want her to overhear what you discussing with your friend, don’t make it too obvious. Approaching her friends first is also a good idea. You’ll be more natural and less nervous starting the conversation. And talk like she’s a real person, not an object of your sex admiration.”

If you’re nervous or believe you’re a terrible conversationalist, recruit a friend to aid you to start the discussion and to also make you look good. Also watch her body language for clues to tell if she’s interested in your or if she wishes you’d go away. Eye contact and turning her body toward you are good signs. Appearing distracted or angling herself toward her group of friends is an indication she is uninterested in you or not enjoying it.

Compliment – Praising What She Love To Hear
At times a compliment is the best way to approach a woman. Compliments work if they are honest, relatively unique to the ladies and not sexually charge. Be sincere and specific, and avoid commenting on physical attributes. In other words, compliment her fashion taste, her wit, or her knowledge of certain hobbies. But not her fantastic lips or her fabulous figure, you can save those when you know them better.

Warning
If you start a conversation by complimenting a woman’s appearance, she may think you’re only out for the one thing. And prevent over complementing or exaggerate. Calling a lady beautiful is not bad but calling her the most beautiful girl you have ever seen in your life is terrible. Women are not in denial and they do check other women out.  No matter how good a girl looks or thinks she looks, she knows that there are hotter, more beautiful chicks around. So don’t lie. It may get your pants on fire!

Frank – Be Your True Self
Frankness is a symbol of sincerity and it really gets a girl’s attention. Women rated pickup lines in which the man revealed something about his character, personality, or interests higher than men thought they would. Using this approach gives the woman an idea of how you’ll treat her if you start dating.

Women usually look further ahead if they wishes to progress into a relationship with you. They want a guy who cares about their well being. If their first experience with you makes them believe that you are a nice, considerate guy, they will not keep their guard up around him. It means it’s easier for a guy to get to know them and progress the relationship.Most women want to be with a nice guy and not simply a target for sex. It’s also far more intriguing to discover the sexy side of a nice guy than it is to learn that the all-about-sex guy has a ‘nice’ side.”

You can show off your “good mate” qualities by taking interest in whatever she’s doing. Just ask her a question or make a comment about whatever she’s doing, whether it’s the lecture you’re attending or what she’s drinking. By asking a woman at a bookstore about the paperback she was looking at and talking to a woman at an art museum about the painting she was admiring works favourably well.

Warning
This doesn’t mean you have to start reading Shakespeare or studying love bible to attract a woman. In fact, being overly nice in the wrong way may project you as indecisive and weak. And instead drive women away. You may also wish to avoid namedropping at the wrong situation as it will most likely make you appear pretentious instead of intellectual.

All this can increase your chances , but of course, you can never guess what approach each woman prefers or which type of pick up lines works. So always use the smile which is always a great approach. It’s the universal flirting skill, and it can diffuses negativity.