There are a few keys that one needs to remember when interacting with an attractive woman you have just met.

1. Most guys pursue her, give her compliments, try to get her approval by giving her things and taking her out.

2. Most men don’t say things that might “rock the boat.” In other words, most men won’t make a
comment early on that might offend or upset her.

3. Most men give away all of their power to attractive women INSTANTLY. I’m talking as soon as they meet.

4. Women interpret these behaviors as a man not feeling comfortable enough and secure enough IN himself to BE himself. In other words, these “commonly accepted courting behaviors” actually come across as subtly MANIPULATIVE to women. At a subconscious level, a woman can INSTANTLY sense a man who is communicating the message “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to do a bunch of other things for you in the hopes that you’ll give me approval.” I know, the truth sometimes sucks.

So, how does this relate to playing up a woman’s insecurities in a tactful, Cocky & Funny way?

Making fun of a woman’s insecurities in a fun, teasing way says something much bigger… it says that you’re not looking for approval and that you’re not afraid of her walking away. It’s one of those things that says a lot more than just what you’re saying with words.

One of the things that annoys women the MOST is when a guy is weak and tentative and he seeks approval by trying to do whatever he thinks a woman would want him to do. In other words, by trying NOT to annoy a woman you’ll often annoy her worst of all.

I know. reality is strange like that.

Now, on the OTHER HAND, if you say something like “Hey, you’re kind of short for a cute girl”… it can have the OPPOSITE effect.

REMEMBER, one of the KEYS to this type of comment is the HUMOR. Half of the Cocky & Funny equation is FUNNY.

You’re not being MEAN, you’re being PLAYFUL.

But, when you comment on something that an attractive woman might be insecure about in a VERY FUNNY WAY, it says ALL the right things, all at once.

It says that you’re not afraid of her, it says that you’re funny, it says that you’re sassy, it says that you’re going to be a challenge. It says that you’re not seeking her approval, and it says that you’re not a WUSSY.

Now, keep in mind, this is a FUN thing to do.

If she LAUGHS when you say it, you’re on the right track. If she gets “fake mad”, you’re on the right track. If she starts crying and telling you that you’re the kind of guy that should be beaten up, then you need some work.

Good Luck.